What's wrong with being Misanthropic?

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Just to be clear allow me to elaborate. I am not talking about "I hate this group of people, I don't like that organization, men/women piss me off, old/young people suck... etc"

I mean our species. I am not making this claim that other species are somehow morally superior to us, I know that's not true. Nor is this a grievance against some method of socialization that somehow if we just hugged our children more they wouldn't be like every generation of worthless borderline sociopaths that has preceded them. The few good things we do is like a cheap shellack covering the rotten turd that is the soul of our race.

Regardless of culture, of era, of mindset, the human race has a inner cravenness that it has not merely suffered but nurtured. People will stand and watch a innocent person be murdered without lifting a finger. We gleefully flaunt our marginal success over a suffering neighbor because it puffs up our ego's. We do mean spirited things for NO reason at all, and the only reason we do kindly things is almost exclusively to make ourselves feel better. Even our religions, the supposed heralds of morality and good behavior frequently rationalize monstrous acts and make blind obedience the price of the charity they claim to dole out without requisite.

Yet if somebody voices their contempt with humanity they are met with scorn. Why? What is wrong with hating something so fundamentally mean spirited and spiteful as us? Rather than casting aspersions to people who simply speak the truth, shouldn't we be more worried about the pollyannas who insist we ignore humanity's monstrous behavior?
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  • Re: What's wrong with being Misanthropic?

    Tue, November 3, 2009 - 10:39 AM
    I-BARB POSTED : Regardless of culture, of era, of mindset, the human race has a inner cravenness .

    RESPONSE : The present era has more apparent cravenness than most known previous eras ---the exception being Rome at the time of its fall . And we can thank, yes , the pop culture mass media of news as entertainemnt and entertainment as news that glorifies earthiness / crassness . The mass media paradigm has fosterred the innate temptation for mental laziness that though it did not begin with the present era has certainly been egged on and amplified by it .,

    We have a mass news and entertainment media that feeds us the sordid / the mindless voyeurisim of gossip .

    We have people that feed their minds cultural detritus like: Family Guy, Southpark, sitcoms like Grounded For Life, CSI ,Reality shows like Survivor , made for t.v. yuppie trash shows on the Lifetime channel, and other artefacts of CULTURAL ENTROPY , and feed their bodies culinary detritus of JUNK FOOD .

    I-BARB POSTED : and the only reason we do kindly things is almost exclusively to make ourselves feel better.

    RESPONSE : It is good that you qualify the sentence with an *almost*, since there are certainly altruistic people out there , and have been in the glorious past .

    Senior citizens of the quaint sort are a blessing . There ought to be more mild mannered old men who like carpentry and antique bronze figurines. There ought to be more old ladies from New England named Mildred, which play Mah-jong on the vernada and drink authentic lemonade and wear dresses down to their ankles .

    So many baby boomers suck . The one's from middle class and wealthy suburban homes ---the jerks that identify with the characters in the Big Chill movie by Lawrence Kasdan and the 1980's television series Thirtyomething . The sort of ambivalent/ambiguous jackasses that use expressions like "mooted out" and listen to trash like Fleetwood Mac, King Harvest, Englund Dan , and Crosby Stills and Nash . (Neil Young was a great musicina ---why he had anything to do with that band is something perplexing , quite ) .

    Teenagers that use expressions like "hottie" suck as well . They are enamored of an activity that starts with the letter 's' which is the opiate of the masses . They are also enamored of fast noisy cars .

    (Not all teenagers are like that mind you . Yet the typical American teenagers --the sorts that grow up in television households and attend public junior highs and high schools, like wearning shorts and eating junk food, tend to be shallow twerps ) .

    Old people and very young children as a group tend to be better people . Quaint old people that is ....
    • Re: What's wrong with being Misanthropic?

      Tue, November 3, 2009 - 10:50 AM
      Jason: "The present era has more apparent cravenness than most known previous eras ---the exception being Rome at the time of its fall "

      The keyword being 'apparent'. We live in an era that is more exhaustively documented on every level than any other. We do not have more craven behavior, we just see it more clearly. The funny irony is we live in a time when scores of research specialists have been able to document our behavior and digest the causes and rationales.

      Simple test, take a dozen small children from around the world. Wait for two of them to get into a fight and watch the rest, not try to stop the fight but instead cheer it on. This is not the result of culture, you have it backwards, our culture is the result of this behavior. For every one lone soul who decries this behavior there are a multitude who will scream for more. This is not something they were indoctrinated to be like, no more than a hornet is indoctrinated to be hostile and attack anything in its way. However unlike the hornet, we see what we do and rather than make even some meager effort at stopping it, most people prefer to rationalize and even glorify their acts.
      • Jason: "The present era has more apparent cravenness than most known previous eras ---the exception being Rome at the time of its fall "

        I-BARB POSTED :The keyword being 'apparent'. We live in an era that is more exhaustively documented on every level than any other. We do not have more craven behavior, we just see it more clearly.

        RESPONSE: NOT so. Now more than ever do we have people exposed to media imagery that (to give one manifestation of societal malaise) portrays women as objects for sexual intercourse. Now more than ever do we have media that disseminates depictions of rape . The masses did not see paintigns like the rape of the Sabean women . But large masses of people in the thousands and perhaps even millions can see a cable t.v. show or a movie of someone being raped or hear the suggestion of it . When people are exposed to such motifs presented as entertainment they become desensitized to it, or in worse cases become either overtly or latently turned on by it .

        If , as Marshall MacLuhan once put it, the medium is the massage--the sort of "massage" that the present pop culture media industry at large has put on people is a sort of mafia style massage on the mind ---tweaking it into collective mental mutations and deformations of a ghastly sort . People have NOT always had such a sordid cast to the level they have now ; don't let anyone kid you into thinking that .

        Only the problem is the viewers are still culpable for they let themselves get brianwashed by the sordid pop culture .
        media .

        Its high time we try to counter-recondition them ---to culture jam' borrowing a phrase from the school of Kalle Lasn and Adbusters magazine .
        • You are putting the cart in front of the horse, people create their culture not the other way around. Also to blame sex on the psychopathic behavior of the human race is a pathetic whitewash that just panders to your phobia for sexuality. All you have to do is WATCH LITTLE CHILDREN! I have both personal first hand memories of watching fellow classmates in grade school cheering on the most abhorrent violence and openly practiced behavior that were they adults have them Baker Act'd in a heartbeat. I assure you, if it were not for the 'cuteness affect', the measured psychological phenomena in which adults tend to view children and small animals under a rose-colored glasses perspective, people would be collectively horrified at how psychotic children are.
          • I-BARB POSTED :You are putting the cart in front of the horse, people create their culture not the other way around.

            RESPONSE: Then, after culture has been created, culture reconditions and changes the personalities of perople by cultural conditioning on those who allow themselves to be so molded .

            I-BARB POSTED :Also to blame sex on the psychopathic behavior of the human race is a pathetic whitewash that just panders to your phobia for sexuality.

            RESPONSE: Amplified libido without much cultural counterweights leads to amplified anomie , and a welter of other societal woes .

            I-BARB POSTED :All you have to do is WATCH LITTLE CHILDREN! I have both personal first hand memories of watching fellow classmates in grade school cheering on the most abhorrent violence and openly practiced behavior that were they adults have them Baker Act'd in a heartbeat.

            RESPONSE: And I have seen first hand examples of how lusy parents often amplify those tendencies. Competitiveness which is so prized by American suburbia ---especially since the postwar economic boon ---is a leaven that leavens the collective societal dough in may sectors of America .

            I recall watching a soccer game in 1979, at Lime Street Elementary school, in Lakeland, Florida (yours truly was NOT into playing soccer , but back then I would some times watch when others played) and I recall one of the apparent female adult relative's of the boys who was playing--- calling out to one lad regarding some opponent on the other team exhorting him to kick the opponent with ,

            'Kick him in the shins ; it won't hurt for long !' .

            Furthermore , you have all the Warner Brothers cartoons that so many youngsters allowed to soak into their minds ---that did not exist in the 1910's, 20's , ect that showed cartoon characters hitting each other with axes , and all sorts of gratuitous violence , and it being treated as entertainment . People do get conditioned by media . Don't kid yourself into thinking otherwise .
          • I-BARB POSTED :You are putting the cart in front of the horse, people create their culture not the other way around.

            RESPONSE: Then, after culture has been created, culture reconditions and changes the personalities of perople by cultural conditioning on those who allow themselves to be so molded .

            I-BARB POSTED :Also to blame sex on the psychopathic behavior of the human race is a pathetic whitewash that just panders to your phobia for sexuality.

            RESPONSE: Amplified libido without much cultural counterweights leads to amplified anomie , and a welter of other societal woes .

            I-BARB POSTED :All you have to do is WATCH LITTLE CHILDREN! I have both personal first hand memories of watching fellow classmates in grade school cheering on the most abhorrent violence and openly practiced behavior that were they adults have them Baker Act'd in a heartbeat.

            RESPONSE: And I have seen first hand examples of how lusy parents often amplify those tendencies. Competitiveness which is so prized by American suburbia ---especially since the postwar economic boon ---is a leaven that leavens the collective societal dough in may sectors of America .

            I recall watching a soccer game in 1979, at Lime Street Elementary school, in Lakeland, Florida (yours truly was NOT into playing soccer , but back then I would some times watch when others played) and I recall one of the apparent female adult relative's of the boys who was playing--- calling out to one lad regarding some opponent on the other team exhorting him to kick the opponent with ,

            'Kick him in the shins ; it won't hurt for long !' .

            Furthermore , you have all the Warner Brothers cartoons that so many youngsters allowed to soak into their minds ---that did not exist in the 1910's, 20's , ect that showed cartoon characters hitting each other with axes , and all sorts of gratuitous violence , and it being treated as entertainment . People do get conditioned by media . Don't kid yourself into thinking otherwise .
          • I-BARB POSTED :You are putting the cart in front of the horse, people create their culture not the other way around.

            RESPONSE: Then, after culture has been created, culture reconditions and changes the personalities of perople by cultural conditioning on those who allow themselves to be so molded .

            I-BARB POSTED :Also to blame sex on the psychopathic behavior of the human race is a pathetic whitewash that just panders to your phobia for sexuality.

            RESPONSE: Amplified libido without much cultural counterweights leads to amplified anomie , and a welter of other societal woes .

            I-BARB POSTED :All you have to do is WATCH LITTLE CHILDREN! I have both personal first hand memories of watching fellow classmates in grade school cheering on the most abhorrent violence and openly practiced behavior that were they adults have them Baker Act'd in a heartbeat.

            RESPONSE: And I have seen first hand examples of how lusy parents often amplify those tendencies. Competitiveness which is so prized by American suburbia ---especially since the postwar economic boon ---is a leaven that leavens the collective societal dough in may sectors of America .

            I recall watching a soccer game in 1979, at Lime Street Elementary school, in Lakeland, Florida (yours truly was NOT into playing soccer , but back then I would some times watch when others played) and I recall one of the apparent female adult relative's of the boys who was playing--- calling out to one lad regarding some opponent on the other team exhorting him to kick the opponent with ,

            'Kick him in the shins ; it won't hurt for long !' .

            Furthermore , you have all the Warner Brothers cartoons that so many youngsters allowed to soak into their minds ---that did not exist in the 1910's, 20's , ect that showed cartoon characters hitting each other with axes , and all sorts of gratuitous violence , and it being treated as entertainment . People do get conditioned by media . Don't kid yourself into thinking otherwise .
          • I-BARB POSTED :You are putting the cart in front of the horse, people create their culture not the other way around.

            RESPONSE: Then, after culture has been created, culture reconditions and changes the personalities of perople by cultural conditioning on those who allow themselves to be so molded .

            I-BARB POSTED :Also to blame sex on the psychopathic behavior of the human race is a pathetic whitewash that just panders to your phobia for sexuality.

            RESPONSE: Amplified libido without much cultural counterweights leads to amplified anomie , and a welter of other societal woes .

            I-BARB POSTED :All you have to do is WATCH LITTLE CHILDREN! I have both personal first hand memories of watching fellow classmates in grade school cheering on the most abhorrent violence and openly practiced behavior that were they adults have them Baker Act'd in a heartbeat.

            RESPONSE: And I have seen first hand examples of how lusy parents often amplify those tendencies. Competitiveness which is so prized by American suburbia ---especially since the postwar economic boon ---is a leaven that leavens the collective societal dough in may sectors of America .

            I recall watching a soccer game in 1979, at Lime Street Elementary school, in Lakeland, Florida (yours truly was NOT into playing soccer , but back then I would some times watch when others played) and I recall one of the apparent female adult relative's of the boys who was playing--- calling out to one lad regarding some opponent on the other team exhorting him to kick the opponent with ,

            'Kick him in the shins ; it won't hurt for long !' .

            Furthermore , you have all the Warner Brothers cartoons that so many youngsters allowed to soak into their minds ---that did not exist in the 1910's, 20's , ect that showed cartoon characters hitting each other with axes , and all sorts of gratuitous violence , and it being treated as entertainment . People do get conditioned by media . Don't kid yourself into thinking otherwise .
          • I-BARB POSTED :You are putting the cart in front of the horse, people create their culture not the other way around.

            RESPONSE: Then, after culture has been created, culture reconditions and changes the personalities of perople by cultural conditioning on those who allow themselves to be so molded .

            I-BARB POSTED :Also to blame sex on the psychopathic behavior of the human race is a pathetic whitewash that just panders to your phobia for sexuality.

            RESPONSE: Amplified libido without much cultural counterweights leads to amplified anomie , and a welter of other societal woes .

            I-BARB POSTED :All you have to do is WATCH LITTLE CHILDREN! I have both personal first hand memories of watching fellow classmates in grade school cheering on the most abhorrent violence and openly practiced behavior that were they adults have them Baker Act'd in a heartbeat.

            RESPONSE: And I have seen first hand examples of how lusy parents often amplify those tendencies. Competitiveness which is so prized by American suburbia ---especially since the postwar economic boon ---is a leaven that leavens the collective societal dough in may sectors of America .

            I recall watching a soccer game in 1979, at Lime Street Elementary school, in Lakeland, Florida (yours truly was NOT into playing soccer , but back then I would some times watch when others played) and I recall one of the apparent female adult relative's of the boys who was playing--- calling out to one lad regarding some opponent on the other team exhorting him to kick the opponent with ,

            'Kick him in the shins ; it won't hurt for long !' .

            Furthermore , you have all the Warner Brothers cartoons that so many youngsters allowed to soak into their minds ---that did not exist in the 1910's, 20's , ect that showed cartoon characters hitting each other with axes , and all sorts of gratuitous violence , and it being treated as entertainment . People do get conditioned by media . Don't kid yourself into thinking otherwise .
            • Sorry, the whole "Television makes kids violent" can be demolished with the fact that it's been observed before there was radio, let alone television. So what blame pulp novels? Blame stories passed around the campfire?

              You could blame competitiveness on violent behavior in competitive events and situations. However that does not explain why people will be openly mean spirited (sometimes to total strangers) when there is nothing to compete over.

              Blaming the media is a very tired, and repeatedly debunked boogeyman that lets humanity get a free pass for it's sins. I watch more media than most people I know and I've never felt compelled to be a mass murdering rap star or a scheming wall street lawyer. I have however been occasionally persuaded to buy a burger. People will do what they were already inclined to do. A person who is innately passive won't be made violent no matter how many hours of video games he plays. The sad part is that works the opposite way as well, if you have a child who gets a thrill out of seeing his classmates brutalized no amount of scolding him for it will change his essence.
              • T.I.B.
                <<<Sorry, the whole "Television makes kids violent" can be demolished with the fact that it's been observed before there was radio, let alone television. So what blame pulp novels? Blame stories passed around the campfire?>>>

                One of the most interesting books I have ever read was "Inside The Criminal Mind" by Stanton E. Samenow, Ph.D. It outlines the existance and detection of criminal behaviors in early childhood as well as adolescence and adulthood. I do not regard Dr.Samenow's work as definitive, but as I have observed behaviors of different people over my 44yrs, his observations seem to mimic my own very closely.

                There are many factors that predispose people to behaviors that eventually turn violent or hurtful towards others. Much of it depends on environment and parenting. To state unequivically that X produces Y behavior is impossible without factoring in the many variables of an individuals existance.

                I grew up watching the old school cartoons and they did nothing to edge me towards violence or anything else. In fact I found that it showed me that my mother cared enough about me to make sure she let me know it was time for the cartoons to come on and insure that I had snacks to enjoy with them. Those days ARE GONE for kids these days. They are given a video game to babysit them and with that comes isolation from parents and the real world.

                My little cousin was hired to work with his father and it was then that his father realized the boy had NO work ethic, NO knowledge of what job his father did and he didnt even know how to check or change the oil in a vehicle. This was a result of the boy being an avid gamer to the point that he won State competitions playing "Halo". His parents thought this was something to be proud of and allowed him to immerse himself in video games. The irony was that with all of the violent games he played, he was not violent AT ALL. In fact he was just the opposite. He was a weenie armed PUSSY who'd flinch and run like a sissy at the drop of a hat because he had no fighting skills whatsoever. These things come from EXPERIENCE, not from television or video games.

                Now, as time progressed and the boy became frustrated over all of the life necessities he had no knowledge of, he became violent. He became defensive, dysfunctional in relationships, abusive towards women and he turned to drugs and alcohol which only exacerbated the core problem. He lost his job with his father and found that he could not hold a job at all, so he turned to selling drugs and robbing other drug dealers. He ended up in a conflict with a rival drug dealer who was only 15yrs old and he pulled his 9mm Glock and blew the boys brains out. He is now doing life without parole....

                As to your question; "What is wrong with misanthropy?", I believe it breeds apathy and disregard for solutions as well as an overall disgust towards society and social change. I love my fellow humans and I hold out hope that one day the moral majority will embrace values that respect and include everyones prudent choices and foster acceptance of evolving standards. I refuse to let a few bad apples spoil the whole bunch. The "few" being the criminal/mentally ill element and the religious occult.
              • I-BARB POSTED :Sorry, the whole "Television makes kids violent" can be demolished with the fact that it's been observed before there was radio, let alone television.

                RESPONSE: What has been observed before there was radio let alone television : v

                (A) Violent behavior in the youth

                OR

                (B) Violent motifs in popular culture .

                If the former , please document that the youth were as violent in terms of the ratio of aggressively violent youth to non agressively violent youth in the population extant at the time .

                If you mean the latter than how many youth were exposed per capita to say pulp novels or NON -television or film motifs of violence as opposed to the amount of the youth population that were exposed to violence by television and motion pictures . Please provide documentation .

                I-BARB POSTED ; So what blame pulp novels? Blame stories passed around the campfire?

                RESPONSE: Those don't saturate as large amounts of people nor as frequently than the motifs of violence presented in television and motion pictures. The level of saturation of the motifs of violence in campfire tales is much less. There were plenty of people in the 1800's who didn't have much time for campfire tales because they were too busy primin the pump on the well , feedin the horses and chickens , and helping the blacksmith clean up the forge .

                Vast amounts of people in the 1800's were illiterate and hence did not read pulp novels. Not all the people in the 1800's who read read pulp novels . Compare contrast that with America of the postwar period where millions of households have television sets that expose them to violent motifs. Thus that comparison is flimsy and dsoes not exonerate the role of the media .

                I-BARB POSTED :You could blame competitiveness on violent behavior in competitive events and situations. However that does not explain why people will be openly mean spirited (sometimes to total strangers) when there is nothing to compete over.

                RESPONSE: The weird , froward sensibility fostered by competitiveness could likely take on a momentum that spills over its boundaries and lead to such a weird dynamic .

                I-BARB POSTED :Blaming the media is a very tired, and repeatedly debunked boogeyman that lets humanity get a free pass for it's sins. I watch more media than most people I know and I've never felt compelled to be a mass murdering rap star or a scheming wall street lawyer.

                RESPONSE: NOT everyone maintains the mental self discpline that you do . Add media glamorization of sordid aggressively violent behavior + LACK of circumspection / LACK of self discpline and voila people being given over to a range of sordid activity . People tend to emulate a lot of other people --often uncritically .Mass Media *amplifies* that tendency .


                I-BARB POSTED :I have however been occasionally persuaded to buy a burger. People will do what they were already inclined to do. A person who is innately passive won't be made violent no matter how many hours of video games he plays.

                RESPONSE: Back in the 1990's , yours truly recalls reading of in passing reported academic studies that indicated otherwise --that reportedly---indicated that youngsters who were given to playing violent video games also seemed to display more physical aggressiveness than those who did not . Such reported studies ought to be investigated to see IF they have corroboration and have eliminated all the hidden variables--NOT accepted blindly. Nonetheless , the claim of increased violence from increased exposure , should not be dismissed out of hand .
          • I-BARB POSTED :You are putting the cart in front of the horse, people create their culture not the other way around.

            RESPONSE: Then, after culture has been created, culture reconditions and changes the personalities of perople by cultural conditioning on those who allow themselves to be so molded .

            I-BARB POSTED :Also to blame sex on the psychopathic behavior of the human race is a pathetic whitewash that just panders to your phobia for sexuality.

            RESPONSE: Amplified libido without much cultural counterweights leads to amplified anomie , and a welter of other societal woes .

            I-BARB POSTED :All you have to do is WATCH LITTLE CHILDREN! I have both personal first hand memories of watching fellow classmates in grade school cheering on the most abhorrent violence and openly practiced behavior that were they adults have them Baker Act'd in a heartbeat.

            RESPONSE: And I have seen first hand examples of how lusy parents often amplify those tendencies. Competitiveness which is so prized by American suburbia ---especially since the postwar economic boon ---is a leaven that leavens the collective societal dough in may sectors of America .

            I recall watching a soccer game in 1979, at Lime Street Elementary school, in Lakeland, Florida (yours truly was NOT into playing soccer , but back then I would some times watch when others played) and I recall one of the apparent female adult relative's of the boys who was playing--- calling out to one lad regarding some opponent on the other team exhorting him to kick the opponent with ,

            'Kick him in the shins ; it won't hurt for long !' .

            Furthermore , you have all the Warner Brothers cartoons that so many youngsters allowed to soak into their minds ---that did not exist in the 1910's, 20's , ect that showed cartoon characters hitting each other with axes , and all sorts of gratuitous violence , and it being treated as entertainment . People do get conditioned by media . Don't kid yourself into thinking otherwise .
  • Re: What's wrong with being Misanthropic?

    Tue, November 3, 2009 - 5:13 PM
    I once held the title of World's Biggest Misanthrope. Lately though, I'm starting to be able pull apart and view that rotten nature separately from the humanity which contains it, by seeing how it comes to exist in the first place. A lot of it is our grappling with the ego. Because humans have egos, it seems to me to subtract from - rather than add to - any sense of our species being the most evoled on the planet. And if we somehow outlive our destructive impulses, we will have a long way to grow even then.

    On the other hand, it could actually be worse; people cannibalising one another on the street. There is some genuine kindness out there, but you almost have to have some faith in the good parts of humanity to see it. And how could there not be good parts too, in a complimentary universe? I got rid of my misanthropy coz it was giving me a lot of anxiety. And in return, anxiety actually helped me lose a lot of my misanthropy, because it helped me see that the one thing everyone has in common is that they're stuck on this planet right now. That can't be easy for anyone.

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