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Women say they like foreplay. And they like to talk, communicate. I've long thought that men should take time turning women on. Why not? They seem to like it. And often, they respond to the slightest touch. Also, though of course many like to extend the duration of the sexual act, no one wants to belabour something which has no passion or friendliness to it. Also, I think people should take the time to use contraception. It really doesn't reduce pleasure so much. There are ribbed varieties. Essentially, I think that men and women should grow closer before, and during the sexual act. And after. If expression is free, much more pleasure can be had by both parties, on many levels, psychosexual, intimacy-wise, and after a sensual manner. What are your opinion. Feel free to describe how you feel regarding this topic, and be sure to say what it is you find pleasureable about intimacy, for these are human beings we have sex with.
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Re: A Conscious Sexuality
Thu, September 24, 2009 - 8:33 PMHe he he hmmm....I really really REALLY do not think you want me to expound upon my hedonistic desires.....Ha!Ha! I keep these things to myself as they transcend the perameters of what is considered "normal", and it only serves to invite hateful retort and disdain. Not that I give a fuck. But I like to maintain some semblance of respect for those people who are not like me. I love the shock value of expletives. But my sexual proclivities shock in a much different manner. -
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Re: A Conscious Sexuality
Thu, September 24, 2009 - 11:23 PMNot to provoke you, what you're comfortable sharing and not comfortable sharing is totally up to you, but you may be surprised to find out what is "normal" and what is not ;) -
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Re: A Conscious Sexuality
Fri, September 25, 2009 - 12:19 AMPinky
Damn, you make it tough to resist! But for some reason I feel like there's a troll frothing at the mouth waiting for a post here to use like a beach ball, bouncing it all over the place.
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Re: A Conscious Sexuality
Fri, September 25, 2009 - 11:14 AMWho mentioned anything about 'normal'?
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Re: A Conscious Sexuality
Fri, September 25, 2009 - 11:20 AMCan't even
go out
in me
garden.
Horn beetles
'r 'n
full-frontal
fall
rut.
A dangerous
place
fer
a pixie
ta be
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Re: A Conscious Sexuality
Fri, September 25, 2009 - 11:24 AMCan't go
outside.
ya see-
there are
horn'beetles
about!
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Re: A Conscious Sexuality
Fri, September 25, 2009 - 11:26 AMYou're off-topic. Go bones that pixie elewhere. Do you... bone? -
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Re: A Conscious Sexuality
Fri, September 25, 2009 - 11:30 AMEwww.
If ya
waz a
ruttin'
horn-beetle,
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Re: A Conscious Sexuality
Fri, September 25, 2009 - 1:22 PMI'm not Paul. I'm George. George was the loner. Didn't speak much. I'm not the Walrus.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paul_is_dead
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Re: A Conscious Sexuality
Fri, September 25, 2009 - 11:14 AMThat's just the point. We don't need more explicit ideas of what you or anyone else does. We want the sense that you do something to build up to it, if in fact that actually happens. No hateful retort or disdain from me now, here. Just wondering how you feel, in the sense of getting down to business, and how conscious it feels to you, how much communication between you and your lover it contains. Perhaps men with men is different, all depends. Women do like a lot of inventive attention, but these days a whole shit load are far too desperate. But if a few or more are desperate, might as well work 'em over slow and good, then pound the fuck outta them, just to make 'em lie still and shut the fuck up a few minutes. They like that whole body make-over. Yours is a different case, possibly.
"I love the shock value of expletives." Me too.
"But my sexual proclivities shock in a much different manner." I figured as much. Just express whatever you want. -
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Re: A Conscious Sexuality
Fri, September 25, 2009 - 1:26 PM
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Re: A Conscious Sexuality
Fri, September 25, 2009 - 1:34 PMSo, make the lady lie down on her back, legs together. Get the boa, the clean feathered tickler. Not the straps or whips yet, maybe later. Start anywhere, below her breasts, at her tummy, the upper arms, the shoulders. Work down. Make her absorb the titillation. Make her lie still. No grabbiness yet. Work down her legs, to the arches of her feet, all the available areas where the skin is sensitive enough to have those far neuronal endings send messages of pleasure and appreciated attention to the brain of the subject. Change the type of instrument to something slightly more wicked, only slightly. Get her to breathe heavily, then leave the room, lcok the door, and make her wonder when you will come back. You know she'll find her button somewhere during that spell. -
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Re: A Conscious Sexuality
Tue, October 27, 2009 - 4:25 PMI guess not, huh, women? Snakecharmers. I won't even say it. Lockin' the door, never knew you.
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Re: A Conscious Sexuality
Thu, September 24, 2009 - 11:37 PMThere's a saying: "Foreplay is for pussies."
Technically, yes, but men aren't necessarily ready to go anytime anywhere either. Stereotypically men want sex more than women, but that's really not always the case, and I know my husband enjoys foreplay as much as I do. He gets off on getting me off - quite literally, it will take him less time getting aroused if he's fingering me or eating me out than if I were to give him a hand job or a blow job (not that those don't also work and are implemented just as often, but he more enjoys seeing me in the throes of ecstasy than having to sit back and let me do all the work - which I LOVE ;D).
I believe that passion is always a part of sex, even with a fling, and even if it's not obvious outright. I love BDSM, exhibitionism, rape play, and other more risque rather than the more stereotypically "passionate" forms of sex (not to say I don't enjoy truly making love now and then as well, but I like to savor the variety of life), but sex by definition is a passionate act - even with a stranger. It's probably about the most primal instinct we've got, and I know for me personally that when you are able to satisfy both your own and another person's basic needs in a mutually fulfilling way, you learn things about yourself and about that other person that you may never have been able to understand otherwise. Sex is NEVER purely physical. And what can I say? I'm a cuddle whore ^_^
And protection is always important! Although I've never been a fan of condoms (and I have come out luckily disease- and pregnancy-free), I've been on birth control since I lost my virginity, and continue taking 99.9% effective, low-hormone, iron-enriched pills everyday.
My final word would have to be that Mom and Dad were right: sex is always best when shared with someone you love! -
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Re: A Conscious Sexuality
Fri, September 25, 2009 - 11:21 AMI agree that there are not that many truly intelligent men, so they are your whores, but in that case, you can't really predict their behavior. All the saem, the overplus of male sexual potency is somthing that women themselves arranged at some point, and it has to do with your need to be fucked far more than you have the potency to get pregnant. It's a fact.
Why not a fan of condoms? Does that detract from the cum smacking against your inner walls?
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Re: A Conscious Sexuality
Fri, September 25, 2009 - 1:17 PMDoes insulting vulgarity help you feel less weak? Or does it help alleviate the buildup of nervous misogyny?
A number of hetero men seem to get caught in a vicious feedback loop in which they have a lack of healthful relationships with women, so they begin to entertain implausible misogynistic beliefs, which in turn distance them further from healthy women, which the male will blame on women and use as confirmation for merely childish misogyny, creating more distance, and so on.
Not that it's not conceivable that there are hetero women out there doing the same kind of shitty dance, but it seems to manifest differently. Much of it is the same in homosexual communities but the dynamics are different so the character of the feedback and the expression of it seems categorically different. With het guys, there seems to be a whole emerging culture of dipshits who couldn't get laid right out of highschool acting like complete assholes to women and actually blaming that behavior *on women*. It's alternately grimly evil and hilariously stupid.
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Re: A Conscious Sexuality
Fri, September 25, 2009 - 1:21 PMBlackbeard: "All the saem, the overplus of male sexual potency is somthing that women themselves arranged at some point, and it has to do with your need to be fucked far more than you have the potency to get pregnant. It's a fact."
Source?
Blackbeard: "Why not a fan of condoms?"
The sensation of male ejaculate (when strong enough) is quite the irreplaceable "cherry on top" so to speak - a proper ending to intercourse IMHO. Not only that, but condoms tend to place an incredibly impersonal shroud over the whole act, which isn't at all desirable for someone who DOES enjoy the passion and numinous experience of it all.
And I don't care how thin, how lubricated, how organic a condom may be - I've NEVER felt one that feels natural. And forget the ribs and studs - when I have a real man inside me I want to know it's a real man, not a cheap toy.
In a faithful, monogamous relationship between two people who are both free of VD, I don't see a problem with abstaining from condoms, so long as other forms of birth control are used to prevent pregnancy (unless one's TRYING to get pregnant of course).
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